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5 Situations When You Should NEVER Text a Guy | Adam LoDolce


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Published: 1 year ago
Stop and think before you send him that next text! If you're in one of these 5 situations then DON'T text him. It will save you from a texting nightmare.

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Hey you!

Put the phone down where I can see it.

Don't. Type. Another. Word.

Ok…

… now slowly pick the phone up…

… delete every word of that text…

… and put the phone away.

I just helped you avert a texting crisis.

Now, make sure you can avert the rest on your own by checking out my latest video…

… 5 situations when you should NEVER text a guy.

It's not always easy to know when it's the right time to text a guy…

… but there are certain times when it's definitely NOT the right time.

Watch this video to find out about these 5 situations.

Save yourself the embarrassment, agony, and time.

Your life will be better after this video.

Your Coach,
Adam

P.S. If you want to learn exactly WHAT to text him in the RIGHT situation, then you have to download these 100+ love texts. They're guaranteed to blow his mind: https://lovetexting.com/

Summary -

1. You Need to Have a Serious Emotional Conversation

I get it, real deal conversations are scary and they are especially scary when you have to do it in real life... but you have to do it. You have to push for those moments where you're a little bit nervous, and rather than taking the "easy way out" and talking about your feelings and your emotions by text, you have to do that in person. Because so much of communication is lost when it's over text.

So much of what you're saying is through your body language, and it's really how you say it. You can show that you're really listening to them rather than the fact that it takes you seven seconds to respond, right? Wait and talk in real life, don't take the easy road out.

2. When You're Really, Really Drunk

Back when I was single, drunk texting was actually one of my favorite past times. "Hey baby, why don't you just come over and I'll caress you until the break of dawn?" But then I'd wake up the next morning and read the texts that I sent that night and it just says, "Want to get nasty?" ... Not hot, didn't work.

Now obviously, if you're in a committed relationship or you're together, you're going to drunk text... that's natural. But if you're single and you're drinking, use that time to go out and meet new people while you're out, rather than texting with some dude from Bumble or Tinder that you messaged earlier that day. The only caveat is if you're just trying to meet up and all you're doing is texting logistics, but beyond that, avoid the drunk texting - it only ends with sadness and awkward morning reading.

3. When You Have Nothing that You Want to Say and You're Only Looking for Validation

Guys have Spidey senses about when a woman texts us only looking for attention. If there's literally no purpose to your text and you're always initiating these kinds of purposeless texts, then you may want to go back out there and get a life in the real world.

4. When You're in a Fight

As the internet age has progressed, I've noticed one thing about human nature: we're way meaner by text than we'd ever be in real life. Now if you're in a fight with someone and he keeps texting you, just answer with: "Look, how about we grab a cup of coffee later and just work this out?" What you're doing is transitioning the fight from text to real life. It sounds really simple and it is, but a lot of us are guilty of just laying into someone and diving into the fight even further. The best thing to do is nip it in the bud, go meet that person in real life and work it out in real life.

5. You've Already Texted Him Today and He Hasn't Responded Yet

Do you want to know the easiest way to turn a guy off even if he's hundreds of miles away from you? Texting him multiple times during the day. Sometimes guys are just really busy and if someone hasn't responded yet, there is a reason.

If it's gone multiple days and they still haven't responded yet, unless you're worried that something might seriously have happened to them, there's no reason to do anything except maybe call if you're actually concerned. Don't do the multiple texting, okay? He's seen your text. He's read it. He knows that it exists in the world, he just hasn't had a chance to respond. Please don't be the double-texter.

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Me and my boyfriend just broke up yesterday bc we were fighting and I didn't give him the space he needed whenever he told me to leave him alone. GIRLS, GUYS NEED THEIR SPACE. GIVE IT TO THEM.

1 year ago

Yea that's true... Exactly the same thing happened to me

2 weeks ago

They need lots and lots of space😏

1 month ago

My ex and I broke up that way too

2 months ago

So do girls👍 ..and your blaming yourself lol seriously 😕

3 months ago

Fionna why didn’t see or get advice like this 6 months ago 😂😭

3 months ago

Number 5

1 day ago

I have did that on he don't respond how can I stop text a guy who not responding to me and we are in a long distance relationship

1 week ago

Actually that happened today. I followed my text, I sent my boo with; “ I’m not even good enough to get a response”. He called me we spoke. I told him I have been texting you, how come you haven’t responded? He simply told me he doesn’t know how to respond to my text. He also said he does not know how to respond to my text. He also said it’s like my fingers have a mind of their own. 😆

1 week ago

Well. One time my boyfriend and I had a fight. And he didn't text to me after that. It was more than 3 days. On the 4th day I was going crazy, but I knew I didn't have to text him. So I kept waiting. On the 4th day. I said this is it. He better comes to my house today or our relationship is over. Guess what? He came home and said he was sorry about the fight. He also explained how busy he had been and how we wanted to analyze things before talking to me in order to avoid a fight. Yes, we all need our space some times, and it's fine and healthy.

1 week ago

Yeap everything you said is true, when my boyfriend told me thst he loves me i was like- oh no! Way too fast, i didnt know what my feels were but when he pulled away i started to wont him so much! Also was talking to him about feelings throu the text and it didnt clear anything and it was wierd when we acctulaly met:( also when he wanted to meet but he didnt text in that day i gave him silence treatment and of course agreed to meet him next day

1 week ago

To me, if a guy says he loves you but do not have time to answer but answer every one else's texts and calls, he is not serious about me. But he also request nude pics. So he has to e for nude pics but no time to answer. That's weird.

1 week ago

My situation is way different we were having a good messaging conversation and the next day he just dousent txt me at all who understands guys ! 🤷

2 weeks ago

Who's watching this 2019? 🙋

2 weeks ago

I really don't understand ... If a guy does something then we say this is the way guys are... You should never do this that with a guy in a relationship... And if guys do the same we girls need to understand his situation his feelings... And at the end what they say to us" girls are really emotional " I don't like that .... -_- explain this please ,guys

2 weeks ago

So my problem is my man text me way too much and if I don’t text him back within like five seconds he’ll start double texting me too. I’ve to have a talk with him about slowing down, he just blows up at me.

3 weeks ago

And my boyfriend haven’t texted me for 1 day🙇🏽‍♀️ and it’s not the first time he’s doing it. I think it’s time to walk away

3 weeks ago

Unfortunately I'm very guilty of doing the multiple texting, especially when it comes to my friends and family.
Until recently there is a guy friend who I do like but he lives 1000 miles apart; never met him personally but we both have had conversations with each other-both the good and bad- and we always seem to know what is going on in a sense.

4 weeks ago

Cockblocker

4 weeks ago

Men are full of shit thats all

1 month ago

Yup! I knew my ex husband of 13 years was out with a beautiful new woman only a month after our split. He assured me that he wasn’t dating her but I caught him in a lie and freaked out. I texted him about 5 times to please call me and then shook my head and said “stop it”! Jealousy is a wild emotion that makes us do stupid things. Also my daughter really missed him and wanted to say goodnight but he just wouldn’t reply. Heartbreaking. I decided just not to talk to him at all anymore unless necessary for parenting. The lying and sneaking is too painful. He’s away with her for the weekend now... he will miss our daughters first counselling session. Damn it. Divorce sucks. 😖

1 month ago

Can’t resist the overtexting sometimes 🤦🏽‍♀️

1 month ago

Yes iv double texted my bae who I felt was my twinflame..I felt he was a past life connect cos he would just read n not respond...but I guess my concern worked against me..but now iv moved on n told him that ...he texted me that he is missing me n needs me but I hvnt responded positively saying that only if he treats me like his priority n not an option would I meet him..but he has not responded after that so I guess he is not serious abt me but had promised me otherwise

1 month ago

WhatsApp is so much better. You can actually see when they read the message and then you can time their response. If they don’t respond right after reading it, they aren’t into you. Only excuses, they had company, driving, working, in a coma, death.

1 month ago

I'm so happy I don't follow society ways.

1 month ago

Ok, so I'm currently in the #5 situation! I reunited with a guy I met on a dating website back in 2014. He contacted me January 5th 2019, and the 2nd day of us talking he said he loves me!!! 😳😳 shortly after that he said he wanted us to move in together, get married, and have a baby! So, I agreed bc I did really like him, and felt he wanted those things for real. Well, he is in Texas, and I am in Illinois, and I told him I didn't want another long distance relationship bc of the one I was in previously that ended in betrayal, and emotional trauma. He assured me things would be fine, and let's "make this life together!" His text are so intense, heartfelt, warm, loving, kind etc...when he came for a visit he was quiet the opposite of his text, wasn't a conversationalist, didn't want to tall about the wedding date, baby, or living together, so needless to say a month later, and he still has nothing to say about the subjects. I've mentioned them twice, and all he says is....we'll plan it out, we'll see, we'll talk about it blah, blah, blah! The past two days he text me, but won't call me, so I asked him what the problem was, and he said "nothing love, just working I'll call you in a few hours!" That was 9hrs ago. He went from 100-0 real quick, but he keeps telling me everything is fine! What do I do now? Please help....signed TOTALLY CONFUSED!!!

1 month ago

+Rahima Uddin I really appreciate that advice. Thank you very much!

1 month ago

Clearly he is not a man who keeps his word. Also to be making such life long promises so quickly without thought, planning & commitment also says alot about him. Don't jump into a relationship only bc the things that he's saying to you sounds beautiful and meaningful. In reality it's not. Walk away before it's too late. Keep your distance and guard up- if he really means what he says he will come thru

1 month ago

A guy he wants to have relationship with me..and we talked each other and seems very well..he said he is committed for ours relationship..next day he is vanished and didn't text me...i am the first that i text him...he is busy in fb always...when i text him,he read my messages but didn't reply...why?should i have to walk away or what shall i do?

1 month ago

I told him we will meet up to talk about it, he kept antagonizing me so I went off and now I'm single and sorry. Oh yeah and being ignored.

1 month ago

i text a lot to my female friends, but noticed my guy friends never text or take decades to reply and its straight to the point in one line. My dad and brother are the same, I assume guys are not as texty as girls

1 month ago

I never text a guy first. I don't mean first as in first text ever between us. I mean I never say anything to him first in a text even if we've been together for a bit. No double texting that is unless auto correct gets me in a way that makes no sense at all or if it completely changed the meaning of the sentence.

1 month ago

If someone text me after 24 hours, they are done for me!

2 months ago

Guilty! Double texted here. Never a good thing. I learned to not do that. Comes off clingy like you have no other options. Never again.

2 months ago

He said he’s busy, and I am trying to buy it. But whenever I open whatsapp, he always online. All the time. Should I still believe him when he says that he is extremely busy?

2 months ago

Simply don't give a shit to men.they r assholes

2 months ago

On point!
I've been a situation in which I thought I'm the only one who always text first. I thought I'm just pushing my self on him more. Before what I usually do is message him first in the morning and after his work. He seems bored and just message me a smiley. So I decided to message him only in the morning. Then the magic comes in! He message me after his work asking me if I do miss him?. Then he initiate a conversation not like before I always do initiative.

2 months ago

Space is good but if you need too much space live alone 😀😀😀😀

2 months ago

I’m so over this, men are really not worth this many rules and regulations

2 months ago

Yes multiple texting and then silence from the other end☺

2 months ago

I agree women shouldn't text Frist. It could be woman want guy to text frist because that the right way.
Talking in person is better in real life.
I don't over text. Let the guy text first.

2 months ago

A guy loves me ..i met with his parents...now he sending his parents to my home and we are planning for marriage..we talking everyday on calls for hours nd communicte with each other all the day on texting too...but other hand we fight alot and then i calling him nd texting him again nd again nd he didnt respond nd if respond so angrily ..from two days he is not talkking to me and i am calling him again and again he responds of some messeges but not all...what should i doooo????plzzz help

2 months ago

Hi Adam......thank you for your inputs on text. Great advise!

2 months ago

I definitely agree with multiple texting !

2 months ago

yeah i have sent him!massage but he didnt anwser

2 months ago

Then why the word Sorry is biggest for him than his Igo

2 months ago

Him and I ONLY have a phone call relationship...it has been that way for 32 years....BUT sometimes we see each other, he had a car, now he doesn't and he lives awhile away...he used to beg me to see me...but because I put this weight on I didn't want to see him..I regret that...he found someone else...SO I don't know what he looks like after 10 years...

2 months ago

I always did all the five points....i think i need to change.

2 months ago

yes of COURSE i text him multiple times for talking to him but he doesn't don't always, these things have made me worried so I'm watching your videos to know IF it's normal!

2 months ago

... yes ;-;

2 months ago

I’d consider a true double text to be akin to ordering a double at the bar—only if it’s the same liquor. If you repeat what the first message said, ask if the recipient got it, or badger for a response, then yes, that is double texting and notorious for getting on people’s nerves. However, if you send a second message of something you left out of the first message (or thought of later), or if the second message consists of an entirely different subject, I don’t think this should be considered double texting.

2 months ago

Never texting him he never responded anyway and we are over and he is already with someone else I wish him well.

2 months ago

0:51 :-))))))))))))

3 months ago

I am guilty of the emotional conversations over text. It's just to easy to do.

3 months ago

Yu will never have a healthy functioning relationship through texting its a bullshit new age method.....😖it has hidden agendas that can easily be misleading .....😳

3 months ago

I live for the parts that are in black and white and he acts as a woman LOL

3 months ago

Sometimes, texting rather emotional talking is good WITH the pretext of knowing it will be talked out in person. It makes me realise what is important in what I am feeling sometimes.

3 months ago