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5 Situations When You Should NEVER Text a Guy | Adam LoDolce


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Published: 1 year ago
Stop and think before you send him that next text! If you're in one of these 5 situations then DON'T text him. It will save you from a texting nightmare.

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Hey you!

Put the phone down where I can see it.

Don't. Type. Another. Word.

Ok…

… now slowly pick the phone up…

… delete every word of that text…

… and put the phone away.

I just helped you avert a texting crisis.

Now, make sure you can avert the rest on your own by checking out my latest video…

… 5 situations when you should NEVER text a guy.

It's not always easy to know when it's the right time to text a guy…

… but there are certain times when it's definitely NOT the right time.

Watch this video to find out about these 5 situations.

Save yourself the embarrassment, agony, and time.

Your life will be better after this video.

Your Coach,
Adam

P.S. If you want to learn exactly WHAT to text him in the RIGHT situation, then you have to download these 100+ love texts. They're guaranteed to blow his mind: https://lovetexting.com/

Summary -

1. You Need to Have a Serious Emotional Conversation

I get it, real deal conversations are scary and they are especially scary when you have to do it in real life... but you have to do it. You have to push for those moments where you're a little bit nervous, and rather than taking the "easy way out" and talking about your feelings and your emotions by text, you have to do that in person. Because so much of communication is lost when it's over text.

So much of what you're saying is through your body language, and it's really how you say it. You can show that you're really listening to them rather than the fact that it takes you seven seconds to respond, right? Wait and talk in real life, don't take the easy road out.

2. When You're Really, Really Drunk

Back when I was single, drunk texting was actually one of my favorite past times. "Hey baby, why don't you just come over and I'll caress you until the break of dawn?" But then I'd wake up the next morning and read the texts that I sent that night and it just says, "Want to get nasty?" ... Not hot, didn't work.

Now obviously, if you're in a committed relationship or you're together, you're going to drunk text... that's natural. But if you're single and you're drinking, use that time to go out and meet new people while you're out, rather than texting with some dude from Bumble or Tinder that you messaged earlier that day. The only caveat is if you're just trying to meet up and all you're doing is texting logistics, but beyond that, avoid the drunk texting - it only ends with sadness and awkward morning reading.

3. When You Have Nothing that You Want to Say and You're Only Looking for Validation

Guys have Spidey senses about when a woman texts us only looking for attention. If there's literally no purpose to your text and you're always initiating these kinds of purposeless texts, then you may want to go back out there and get a life in the real world.

4. When You're in a Fight

As the internet age has progressed, I've noticed one thing about human nature: we're way meaner by text than we'd ever be in real life. Now if you're in a fight with someone and he keeps texting you, just answer with: "Look, how about we grab a cup of coffee later and just work this out?" What you're doing is transitioning the fight from text to real life. It sounds really simple and it is, but a lot of us are guilty of just laying into someone and diving into the fight even further. The best thing to do is nip it in the bud, go meet that person in real life and work it out in real life.

5. You've Already Texted Him Today and He Hasn't Responded Yet

Do you want to know the easiest way to turn a guy off even if he's hundreds of miles away from you? Texting him multiple times during the day. Sometimes guys are just really busy and if someone hasn't responded yet, there is a reason.

If it's gone multiple days and they still haven't responded yet, unless you're worried that something might seriously have happened to them, there's no reason to do anything except maybe call if you're actually concerned. Don't do the multiple texting, okay? He's seen your text. He's read it. He knows that it exists in the world, he just hasn't had a chance to respond. Please don't be the double-texter.

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Me and my boyfriend just broke up yesterday bc we were fighting and I didn't give him the space he needed whenever he told me to leave him alone. GIRLS, GUYS NEED THEIR SPACE. GIVE IT TO THEM.

1 year ago

My ex and I broke up that way too

3 weeks ago

So do girls👍 ..and your blaming yourself lol seriously 😕

4 weeks ago

Fionna why didn’t see or get advice like this 6 months ago 😂😭

1 month ago

Bella Borrego I gave my guy dt space and he broke up with me cos of dt... Irony.

4 months ago

Bella Borrego Im trying to do that now! This guy and I have been talking and stated we were mutually interested. No titles yet. After I double texted on Friday (when he said he needed space to get his stuff together with finances and a family trip) I have left him alone for 3 days (it is Memorial Day Weekend). Hopefully I gave him the space and he misses me. Wish me luck ladies it is so hard for me to wait. I keep thinking Im going to get bad news

8 months ago

Space is good but if you need too much space live alone 😀😀😀😀

1 day ago

I’m so over this, men are really not worth this many rules and regulations

4 days ago

Yes multiple texting and then silence from the other end☺

4 days ago

I agree women shouldn't text Frist. It could be woman want guy to text frist because that the right way.
Talking in person is better in real life.
I don't over text. Let the guy text first.

5 days ago

A guy loves me ..i met with his parents...now he sending his parents to my home and we are planning for marriage..we talking everyday on calls for hours nd communicte with each other all the day on texting too...but other hand we fight alot and then i calling him nd texting him again nd again nd he didnt respond nd if respond so angrily ..from two days he is not talkking to me and i am calling him again and again he responds of some messeges but not all...what should i doooo????plzzz help

1 week ago

Hi Adam......thank you for your inputs on text. Great advise!

1 week ago

I definitely agree with multiple texting !

1 week ago

yeah i have sent him!massage but he didnt anwser

1 week ago

Then why the word Sorry is biggest for him than his Igo

2 weeks ago

Him and I ONLY have a phone call relationship...it has been that way for 32 years....BUT sometimes we see each other, he had a car, now he doesn't and he lives awhile away...he used to beg me to see me...but because I put this weight on I didn't want to see him..I regret that...he found someone else...SO I don't know what he looks like after 10 years...

2 weeks ago

I always did all the five points....i think i need to change.

2 weeks ago

yes of COURSE i text him multiple times for talking to him but he doesn't don't always, these things have made me worried so I'm watching your videos to know IF it's normal!

2 weeks ago

... yes ;-;

3 weeks ago

I’d consider a true double text to be akin to ordering a double at the bar—only if it’s the same liquor. If you repeat what the first message said, ask if the recipient got it, or badger for a response, then yes, that is double texting and notorious for getting on people’s nerves. However, if you send a second message of something you left out of the first message (or thought of later), or if the second message consists of an entirely different subject, I don’t think this should be considered double texting.

3 weeks ago

Never texting him he never responded anyway and we are over and he is already with someone else I wish him well.

3 weeks ago

0:51 :-))))))))))))

3 weeks ago

Stop texting if you don't want to finish the chat and end chats with a chat later or bye don't just sign off its rude...that happened to me today and it's irritating one minute he was online chatting and t he nex t he just went off so saying bye

3 weeks ago

I am guilty of the emotional conversations over text. It's just to easy to do.

3 weeks ago

Yu will never have a healthy functioning relationship through texting its a bullshit new age method.....😖it has hidden agendas that can easily be misleading .....😳

4 weeks ago

I live for the parts that are in black and white and he acts as a woman LOL

4 weeks ago

Sometimes, texting rather emotional talking is good WITH the pretext of knowing it will be talked out in person. It makes me realise what is important in what I am feeling sometimes.

4 weeks ago

I am guilty for number 5. But I learned my lesson. Honestly it makes you feel like shit days later 😂

1 month ago

Yes, but if He can read the text he can respond to it. I just think that people are full of shit when they say they are too busy, it's no such thing. People make time for what they want.

1 month ago

I sometimes do text my husband multiple times. When he is away at work I want to stay connected to him. He may not respond to a text, but I will send him another anyways.

1 month ago

I have a Question! These tips can use for a guy we just dated. If I sent him a text and he did not response, should I wait for a couple of days or give up!. 🤕😓

1 month ago

Lol #5 is bullshit! If he hasn't responded he's not interested...the end!

1 month ago

Next!✌

1 month ago

No, I have NEVER made these texting mistakes because I have taken your advice to heart and my LDR is still alive and well : ) Keep up the great work and thanks, again!!!

1 month ago

Ahaha , have u ever texted a guy in of these situations ?😂😂😂😂 .

1 month ago

I don’t talk to anybody about my emotions in real life that’s why I get burst up on social media .

1 month ago

I once made a confession where I typed something the morning of the day I’d have a bit of time with the guy in a class of ours. I asked him if he had been on that media (where I could finally get something to him), and he said yes. Fairly awkward..oh god, he’s seen the message. But talking about my feelings from there really worked wonders. He already knew what kind of conversation he was coming into and made sure to be gentle and kind with me. Even got a hug out of it. I still worry about when to text this person since things are still floating in the air and have even had the difficult conversation to tell him this. This video was still very helpful; sometimes, I just need the reminder that busy people happen. The more I relax around someone, the better things tend to go/feel with them.

1 month ago

I believe after you have text and he hasn't responded in over a day then you should text back once and ask him if everything is alright. To show duty of care just in case something has happened. After that then I wouldn't bother.

1 month ago

For me when you on relationship both parties need to make time.being busy not a excuse.. becouse work will never end if you wait for work to finish it never be. Its a matter of giving time.

1 month ago

I was going to double text until I saw this video

1 month ago

How can you text "let's just meet up and talk about this later over coffee" when you're in a long distance relationship? What to do in such a situation?

1 month ago

I meet a guy and I like him. He asked me out to dance 3 days a go and he stop texting me after. Last night on new year. I texted him and told him happy new year and he never respond me back. He got active online and left for like 5 hours. It’s drives me crazy why he does that’s. I need help to figure this out

1 month ago

Soooooo, I think I am guilty of all five of these, but hey, I am not going to apologize. It takes two to tango and some men just awaken the nasty parts in you. Which means it’s not gonna work. But, most important, I learned from it.

1 month ago

To be honest I hate it when anyone bombards me with text. Just simply calling you want to have a conversation. But I must say I always respond back to texts asap. It's only polite to acknowledge the person, I hate when people don't text back it doesn't have to be the same moment or day but during the next day is courtesy.

1 month ago

its just so confusing...my boyfriend doent text back,,,and the excuse he uses is he hates texting ......he silence up for weeks and waits for Me to call him

1 month ago

No drunk texting huh? Well, DUH#

1 month ago

When a men angry eith d lady what to do may d lady text or not

1 month ago

Can someone please help me understand #3. What definds a pointless message? Is asking how someone has been viewed as pointless? What about news that you are excited about but has no effect on them?

1 month ago

This is applicable to BOTH genders!!

1 month ago

o yes i have made a fool out off my self 10 textes i was needie and stupit if im honest it got me no were at all i dont text now like that once is enoufe and its up two him if he calls back its not going anywrre its dead if im honest so i need two move on yur right in what yu say thank yu

1 month ago

Why do men have to be fucking complicated?

1 month ago

I did number 5 once before it bounced back with him calling me non stop cause he was curious to why his girl was so silent for a whole day. He thought I died! 🤣🤣

2 months ago

Wendy if you text him like you stop texting them like a one-time no keep texting no more than one time what to do NAU

2 months ago

Playing head games what a shit cunt.

2 months ago

I had a guy text me non-stop around the clock. It wore me out beyond belief. Also, the texts he'd send were " what are you doing🤔?" "What are you up to?" And worse still " can i have a cheeky pic?" He is 37 and I'm 40!!! Not 17 and 20!! We'd only ever been for one coffee! The constant barrage of messages just felt disrespectful, intrusive, and turned me right off. In the end i had to block him and cut him off completely. I warned him several times to slow down and back off, he'd respect my wishes for a week or so then bombard me again. It was a bloody nightmare, i don't know why people do this it's a dead-set turn-off! DON'T DO IT WHETHER YOU'RE A GUY OR A GIRL! JUST DON'T!

2 months ago